How to Speak and Write Correctly
Letter-Writi
, for almost everybody at some time or other has necessity to address some friend or acquaintance at a dista
led in the peripatetic schoolmaster as his amanuensis, but this had one draw-back,-secrets had to be p
to read and write. No matter how crude his effort may be it is better for any one to write his own letters than trust to another. Even if he should commence,-"deer fren, i lift up my pen to let ye no that i hove been sik for th
riting it and upon the person for whom it is intended. Whether it should be easy or formal in style, plain o
ous out-pouring of thoughts and ideas as they naturally occur to the writer. We are repelled by a person who is stiff and labored in his conversation an
ommunicate. When you write to your friend John Browne to tell him how you spent Sunday you have not to look around for the words, or study set phrases with a view to please or impress Browne, you just tell him the same as if he were
the polish which society confers. When writing a letter the street laborer should bear in mind that only the letter of a street-laborer is expected from him, no matter to whom his communication may be addressed and that neither the grammar nor the diction of a Chesterfield or Gladstone is looked for in his language. Still the writer should keep in mind the person to whom he is writing. If it is to an Archbishop or some other great dignitary of Church or state it certainly should be couched in term
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am sending to
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ll acknowled
er be found I
that I may cla
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or he knows the course the Archbishop will adopt, of having the finding of the bill announced from the C
s simple without being familiar, is just a plain statement, and is as much to the point for its
, those written in an official capacity by public servants, those designed to teach, and those
ate or playful. They should, however, never overstep the boundaries of decency and propriety, for it is well to remember that, unlike conversation, which only is heard by the ears for which it is intended, written words may come under eyes other than those for whom they were designed. Therefore,
rade and business interests and gaining clientele, predispose people unfavorably towards those whom they are designed to benefit. Ambiguous, slip-shod language is a detriment to success. Business letters should be cle
clearness, brevity and dignity of tone to impress the receivers
s and are employed by some of the best writers to give their thoughts and ideas a greater emphasis. The most conspicuous example
ers. Some of the best authors of our time are newspaper men who write in an easy flowing style which is most
or closing expression and signature; (4) the address or direction on the envelope. For the body of a letter no forms or rules can
three features and which custom has sanctioned.
HE
the place, the date of writing and the design
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rk,
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tle
tate should be appended, as in the above, Newark, N. J. There is another Newark in the State of Ohio. Owing to failure to comply with this rule many letters go astray. The date should be on every letter, especially business letters. The date should never be put at the bottom
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Madam
gree of Doctor of Divinity, t
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ev. and dear Sir:
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Anglican Communions are a
the Bishop of
rick Burgess, Bish
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are addressed as Most Reverend
ev. Archbi
v. and
Cardinal Gibbons, Ar
ease your
f the President of the United States is Excellency. How
cy, William
of the Uni
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cy, Charles
the State
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e Frankl
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and Navy is Sir. The rank and station should be
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leges and Universities are gener
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or De
ations are treated as business men
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Sir:
Sir: My dear Sir: Dear Sir: and more
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are designed Dear Sir: Dear Madam: and an unmarried woman of any age is addr
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firm is Messrs, and the corresponding
sometimes used, but it is practically obsolete. Custom is against it and American sentim
CRIP
affection and the signature. The term depends upon the relation of the p
lovi
ffectio
edly
yours
ing, Your own Dovey and other pet and silly endings should be avoided, as they denote shall
sions of Subs
Sinc
s tr
tfully
ote the exact bearing or attitude the writer
ncerely
pectfull
p respec
ery tru
borate e
the highest respect, I
to be, Sir, Your
sion of esteem, I
dear Sir, Ever f
savoring too mu
. If you are writing to Mr. Ryan to tell him that you have a house for sa
edient
very
with r
s Wi
hing, all you want to tell him is that you have a house for sale and t
s: Y'rs Resp'fly and always make
s tr
n F
person to whom you send it m
st name in full. Married women sho
ncerely
eodore
me kindness done you may say, Yours gratefully, or Yours ver
re a lord, earl or duke and only known by the title, but as we have no such titles in
rely
ckson, M.A
, are fond of flaunting after their names degrees they have received honoris causa, that is, degrees as a mark of honor, without examin
e alive may sign the husband's
sinc
lliam S
and is dead the s
sinc
arah S
whether she has a husband living or is a widow. A woman separa
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consists of the name, th
ugh B
thgate
to
a
elope should be always written with propriety and correctness and as if penned by an entire stranger. The only difficulty in the envelope inscription is the title. Every man is entitled to Mr. and every lady to Mrs. and every unmarried lady to Mis
tt, M. D.,
rt Stitt
ert Sti
ion by the letters M. D. so as to differentiate him from a D. D.
prefix Rev. is retained even
cy Tooke
mb, B. A., M. A., B. Sc., Ph. D., LL. D., D. D. the form employed is Rev. Samuel MacComb, LL. D. LL. D. is appended in preference
"Hon." does away with Mr. and Esq. Thus we write Hon. Josiah Snifkins, not Hon. Mr. Josiah Snifkins or Hon. Josiah Snifk
xcell
s E. H
ba
.
ent the superscription o
e Pre
ive Ma
ngton
as those having legitimately earned College Degrees
n Janew
Houston
Marks, M
If the abbreviation of the State is liable to be confounded or confused with that of another then the full name of the State should be written. In writing th
be
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Yo
Minn
Fran
ifo
ccupy a line that is about central between the top of the envelope and the bottom. The name should neither be
l known or to public or city officials it is someti
eigel, Co
York
lliam J
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on visiting cards with just the one word "Regrets" plainly written thereon. Often on cards and notes of invitation we find the letters R. S. V. P. at the bottom. These letters stand for the French repondez s'il vous plait, which means "Reply, if you please," but there is no necessity to put this on an invitation card as every well-bred person knows that a reply is expected. In writing notes
d addressed on the
note delivere
a note on a
a few com
INVIT
Henry Wagstaf
McAdoo's pres
15th, at 8 o'c
r of th
dbine
8th,
tion calling for evening dress. Here is
resents his
enry Wagstaff
their invitat
e Fort on the
tee
acon S
10th,
cAdoo might decli
grets that ow
ust forego the
Mr. and Mrs. W
e Fort on the
tee
eacon
10th,
ressed, say to Mr.
Oldham at hom
r ninth from s
land A
ber
olds mak
ccepts with hi
. and Mrs. Oldh
y evening Oc
sor
obe
egrets that hi
for him to acc
invitation for
ber
sor
ber
small specially designed note paper in which the
Pine
11th,
r. Sai
d I should be
with us and a
fifteenth, at
sinc
Bur
ntsbury
rlyle
13th,
rs. Bu
t very appre
dine with Mr.
y, the fifteent
ve
sinc
Sain
xander B
F INTRO
the writers are in reality vouching for those whom
xingto
York
15th,
s C. Wile
rk,
r Dr.
the lib
you my friend,
practitioner,
ewark. I have
vouch for hi
standing. Any
you may show
preciat
ncerely
lin J