“At our family's most sacred event, my husband put his mistress's son on his shoulders-a place of honor meant for our daughter, the true Vitali heir. When our little girl ran to him, he let the other boy shove her to the ground. Then, in front of everyone, he asked the one question that would get him killed. "Whose kid is this, anyway?" I picked up my daughter and delivered his eulogy: "Her father just died."”