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What is Love?

Let's just say that "Love" always starts between two people.... two people who seek this kind of feeling that makes us live more in a meaningful way.

The question is, how do we know if that love could really make our lives more meaningful? If you are happy with him, do you think that it is the right person? If he makes your heart flutter and give you butterflies, do you think you should fall for him already? If he says the three magic words 'I love you', does that mean you are a couple already?

So how can we be so sure that this is Love?

First, Honesty

What is this so called "Honesty"? It's simple, if he is true to you in all aspects especially to your feelings and pays attention to it. It makes you ponder about it if he is doing it out of pity or wants you to know that he is only honest to you. Is he the one?

How do you know or going to make sure that he is "The One"? Or should I say... the one that got away? Because you aren't his' "The One”? Maybe you're his "The Two? The Three? Ten?"... Yeah, it hurts I know that for a fact, but it happens. Especially to those people that believe on the saying "Love is Blind" it is tricky.

You get blinded by love of course, that you think that he is the one, but deep inside he is just making you, his rebound. Oh, see? didn't see that coming' huh? Because he built up all your hopes and dreams. There is a chance that he will just play you in his hands, and in the end, you are just going to get hurt.

Second, Trust