My story

Kelechi Victoria

I'm from Imo State Nigeria

This is a part of story of My Life

I'm back in the village when I was still in secondary school I met a guy named Emma. Emma is from same village with me a market from a rich family my own family had nothing I was in secondary school Emma was assisting me in my school stuff. Buy me books buying cream and some other things for me taking good care of me we both started relationship and then I was 15 years old and he was 22 years old remember my family had nothing I was only managing in school but when I met him since change he keeps supporting me who started dating he was the first man I had kids with I had affair with he talked to me everything about love he was the first man in my life he was taking care of me don't ever think for me providing my knees he makes me look more beautiful my parents know him and the family he came from but my mom was scared he keep advising me to stop going close to him because we had nothing and they are rich. Shaving cats if anything happened we cannot make problem with them we are not in the same class they are in a high class because we have nothing. Parts love him and my dream is to marry a rich man or a man that came from a rich man. We dated for 3 years until effectful day that was the day my tears began today I can firm that I am pregnant for him I got select him now that I am pregnant for him my parents are not aware of this then. Can I told him he was mad at me and he said did I tell you that I am going to get married to a poor girl like you I will never settle with someone like you that came from a Richard home why can't you ask your friend what they take after sex. I was shocked hearing this coming out from him. I sat down in pain and crying because I don't know how to inform my parents apart this and I don't know how to go about it I'm in School. I pleaded with him to calm down and let's know how we are going to go about it let us plan together and not what to do he said that he's blaming me for me to allow this kind of thing happen. And I was like what did I supposed to do I know nothing about this you are the one teaching me everything why don't you tell me what to do but it has already happened how are you going to do about it. Emma replied let's get rid of it because I cannot settle with you. I said okay no problem then what do I supposed to take. Emma replied I will get you something to flush it off. I said okay did they pass he came with drugs I'm hand it over to me and tell me how to take them and I should make sure that my phone is on in case of anything I should let him know. Remember my parents are not aware of this. And his own parents are not aware of this we are just doing this on our own. So I told him no problem that I will took the drugs tonight. But inside me I already know that I am not going to take the drugs because I was scared maybe it will be to my death and again I love him so much all my mind was he was select get married I don't know that he will come up with or do you try well I was thinking that he loves me too. I went home with a drugs I was scared or true I was thinking crying I don't know if I should take the trash or not so I didn't take the drugs he called me midnight and ask me if I took the drugs I told him here. And I said yes I did. Him asked me if I am feeling dizzy or any pain around my novel or I don't know pain if I am feeling anyhow and I replied no I am not feeling pain I'm just okay but I pray that this work. Remember I didn't took the drugs. So morning he called me to come out in a drawing that he want to help me. I went to see him he came with another drugs and ask me to take them since the ones I took last night doesn't work. I asked him why can't us go and make doctor that I'm scared of taking all this drugs he said he can't imagine taking me to a doctor. That I should take the trucks that is going to work. Method okay by then I still love him but I noticed that in his own side the love is not there anymore. I keep crying my best friend is aware of this she advised me to let my parents no of this and I said no I don't want my parents to find out that I am pregnant. 1 week later my mom began to ask me some questions about the changes should notice in my body I have to tired the truth because I can't control it anymore my mom was heartbroken she cried and beat me up some with my dad they beat me up I told me that they want me I have to go to my boyfriend a Emma and I confess to him that I have not been taking all those trust that he has been given to me he was angry I'm very very mad at me he told me that he has no business with me anymore that he can't continue the relationship with me he's not ready to settle down and he is not going to settle for Paul that I am classless. I cried I went back home to apologize to plead and make my parents ask them to forgive me. It was ready is it for my mom to forgive me but it wasn't easy for my dad to forgive me Life goes.

I give birth to a bouncing baby girl my daughter very beautiful my price inform the father that I have given birth being Emma and he said that he's not interested is not none of his business that is how I become single mother and I've been training my child since then I'm not child is 8 years old it hasn't been easy though but I thank God for life she is the only one that gave me joy and happiness in my life. I'm happy to be a mother but it's not easy to be a mother.

But it's not easy at all because I've been struggling with life trying to stand well I'm to give my daughter best education.

This is a story of my life

I learned election never to trust any man in this life.

And I know that all that glitters are not good.

But thank god for my life and the life of my daughter.

We will survive I believe in God

If you touched a life of a single mother you were pregnant because it is not easy. My advice for everyone if you're in relationship is very very careful and not people you're more on you move to a relationship with.